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writes: hi my bf just broke up with me and he is accusing me of trying to get some people to beat him up. and i didnt and i love him and i still want to be friends? what do i do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2006): I'd get some people to beat him up. As long as he's making accusations, you might as well have done it.
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reader, thenabear +, writes (14 November 2006):
 Sound's like a classic case of regret to me. Most people when they make a decision they later regret will often blame the person the made the mistake with. Alot of people have been known to do some really crazy stuff after a break up to get the other persons attention. Like girls claiming to be pregnant. Or men claiming that they are being harrassed. I even met a girl once who called the ex she dumbed and told him she had been raped. Even though it couldn,t be further from the truth. Its a way to get the other person back in your life without wounding your pride or admitting you were wrong. You on the other hand were the dumpee. So you should not let yourself feel guilty. Mainly because that is his goal. Be content with knowing you had nothing to do with it. Tell him one last time. You know you did not do it. You know he is making it up. That you don,t feel guilty and your moving on. He will either swallow his pride or back off. Either one is better for you than this feeling of guilt were you have no blame.
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (14 November 2006):
 i think its time to cut all ties with him, bcos its not good if a person u claim to love can accuse u of this malicious act. he doesnt even trust u anymore, he despises u, forget him and his allegations and move on, if this persists maybe u must ask him why he thinks u can be so violent and tell him to stop pestering u. maybe he is bothered by the fact that he dumped u and u never wanted him back athough u still love him, so he just decided to accuse u of this so that he can get ur attention at the same keep on hurting u.
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