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writes: My best friend got married a week ago and yesterday her husband phoned me saying he wanted to meet up to arrange a surprise hair appointment for his wife. As the conversation progressed, it transpired that he actually wanted to meet for a bit of extra-marrital slap and tickle. Obviously I told him under no circumstances would I do such a thing. He apologised saying that he'd got the wrong idea but then continued to say things he'd like to do to me of an explicit nature. I know he was drunk but this is no excuse. Should I tell my friend or not?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2006): If u are a true friend, you should because id her husband was to confess to her you would end up looking like a backstabber and like the bad one in the story. Be truthful to your friend, it's hard to find real friends..
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (1 February 2005):
 Hi there,No, don't tell your friend. It will hurt her terribly and there's just a really good chance that ol' lover boy will deny it anyway.What I would do is keep well away from the new husband and would not, under any circumstances, allow yourself to be lured into a situation where you're alone with him again. Should he ever try to put the hard word on you again - drunkenness is no excuse - I'd tell him that you will tell his wife exactly what he suggested, word for word. Follow through on telling her only if you have to, because the wife may decide to "keep the blinkers on" and side with her husband, leaving you looking like a spurned floozy.Meanwhile, just to be extra fastidious, I'd make sure that you don't do or say anything around the old lecher that could be misconstrued.Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2005): Heck yes tell her what she married. And if she doesn't believe you then she isn't a friend and then he will continue to hurt her and hit on other people. No one wants to be with a cheater!
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