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writes: Help!I have been in a serious relationship for about 6 years now we live together in his house.I have been having doubts about whether I’m doing the right thing for a couple of years. Due to a change in my b/f's circumstances everythinghas come to a head over the last few weeks.I do care deeply for my b’f but I don’t feel like I’m attracted to him anymore.I love spending time with him, he’s my best friend; but I don’t want to ruin both of our lives by finding out he wasn’t “the one”.To make matters worse I have become close friends with a guy both of us know.Nothing has happened, but I’m afraid because I would like it to.I know they say the grass is always greener, but this new guy gives me everything I’m missing from my long-term relationship, (except sex which is severely lacking in both).I don’t know what to do; please can you help me?Desperately Confused
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2005): Well first of all sex isn't everything. It takes much more to have a real relationship and make it last. Follow your heart, you need to do what will make you happy in the end and if it's breaking up with your boyfriend and going to be with this other guy then do it. I know 6 years is a long time but people sometimes change and feelings change just be glad this happened now and not when you were married. Go ahead and try it with this other guy you may find you don't like him either. How do you know sex is lacking with this other guy when you haven't done anything yet??? You don't know that if nothing has happened, so if he treats you better and does great things for you go for it... Good Luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2005): Drop both of them and move on to someone who can lay some pipe
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