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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:This time last year i had sex with my bestfriend's brother, it wasn't awkward or anything but i told my bestfriend the next day and she seemed a bit bothered but we never fell out.. a month past and everything was fine but he kept asking me to come round when my bestfriend wasn't there, but i didn't.. he was the last person i had sex with and that was a year ago! so now i'm feeling rather in need of sex and me, him and his sister (my bestfriend) were in his car last night and we dropped her off at her boyfriends and then it was just me and him in his car and he was being all flirty but i didn't think of course.. so he dropped me home and then i got a text from him saying 'round 2?;)' and then he was asking me to come round TODAY for sex.. what should i do?! i haven't had sex in a year mind, he was the last person i done it with..
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reader, Staceily  +, writes (17 November 2012):
 Well what is it in your mind that is holding you back? If it was simply sex with no problems or issues attached I think you would do it without having to ask for advice, so there must be something making you wonder if you should or not. I never advise a friends with benefits situation, casual sex rarely ends well. I sense that you have a problem with having sex with him so hold off and explore that first. Then if you decide it's ok, you want sex without a relationship and you both know the terms, then go for it. You are both adults and can do as you please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2012): Why not just get a boyfriend, or get into a relationship with him? Problem solved. You won't have to wonder where and when the next sex session is going to come/from. And its more respectable too than just casual sex...
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