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writes:Is it natural to think that your girlfriend is the sexiest person in the world?I ask because it feels like I've lost the most gorgeous woman I'll ever meet. She split with me some months back after 3 years together, and now I don't think I'm ever going to find another as beautiful as she is. But she was my first love, so I know that this could just be a natural feeling that everybody goes through.Is it? Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2007): I just want to say before I start that really is very sweet and I felt the same way people would say to me That they had felt like this befor and i would get over him and i have now. It took me along while good six months but now I am over him finnally to be honest I thought he was the best looking guy ever I really did think no one matched up to him even that sing by cristrina agulera "aint no other man match up to you your tha kinda guy a girl loves to move you got soul you got class you got style baby aint no other man its true aint no other man but you" that song when I first heard was after wesplit and omg I just cried and said no understands because thats hoew it really feels
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reader, blondie 12  +, writes (4 November 2007):
 awwwwwwww that is really sweet i'd love if my boy said that to my face (but i'v read his note book) hang in there sweetie you'll find someonewho's youur everything and more love me x
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reader, kutie0712  +, writes (28 October 2007):
It is natural. If you have been dating along time it is the hardest. talk to her and be friends. that way you will get what you both want. Find someone who can also make you happy but a relationship isnt about how that person looks it is how you get along together
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reader, jodie +, writes (27 October 2007):
 ur bound to have thought she was gorge bbe! u went out with her, u luved her, she was ur 1st love!
yes u are bound to feel like this as she was ur first love! as they say theres plenty more fish in the sea u will swn find better!!! trust me! gd luck x luv me x
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reader, troubledtoomuch + ♥, writes (26 October 2007):
 Don't get hung up on external beauty. Sure, us guys will always want a beautiful woman, but internal beauty is much more important. Visual beauty is nice, but a loving, honest, intelligent, faithful, trusting and understanding partner are far more important. So are a sense of humor and interests that match your own. If I lived in a city with 1000 eligible women of my age, I would be elated to end up with number 50, or even number 100.
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reader, Xxi'vefoundmyprincexX +, writes (26 October 2007):
 i think thats sweet and probably very natural,
my first love was this boy that i found gorgeous and something about him that ment that wen he was around i couldnt take my eyes off him,
but my friends reminded me like every single day how much of a minger he was
but if your personalities clik i think ur bound 2 find tehm more attractive and they always say thos who hav loved are more likely 2 find love again
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHmmmm. Do any of you think that I will find somebody who I consider prettier? It really pains me to think that I will not find somebody I find more attractive than her, because otherwise I'm just having "2nd best".
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): I felt like this once. I felt like I was never gonna find a guy as gorgeous as him again. But I did! I found someone who was even more gorgeous. And I think that it is a natural feeling that everyone goes through. You'll find someone who is even more beautiful x
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reader, troubledtoomuch + ♥, writes (26 October 2007):
That is natural for your first love. I still remember how pretty my first girlfriend was, and that was 40 plus years ago. In addition, I have felt that any woman that I have cared for was more attractive than she probably really is. We are in our early 60s and I still think that my wife is tremendously attractive. We recently found some sexy pose photos of her that I took when we were in our 30s and she is so hot and sexy. No wonder I married her.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (26 October 2007):
 I think we all feel like that about our first love babe.
I have not found anyone that even comes close to my husband and i don't think i ever will.
Take care.x.
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (26 October 2007):
 hi.
yes the feelings you have are normal,i am a lot older than you and still remember the first girl i went out with, the first time we kissed and other events, when at your age i to believed i would never ever meet any one like her again, like you i was wrong i have met loads of woman in my live, but i will remember my first love and kiss until the day i die.
do not despair you will find other girls, but you have a wonderful memory of your first love.
hope this answers your question.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): Ok mate, sorry to pry, yes i confirm just what you are saying.
take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt was out of my hands. She moved away and didn't want us to carry on.
I don't think you need to pry into reasons behind my questions. I'd much rather you please just confirmed if what I'm feeling is normal, or not.
Thank you for your help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): Why did you finish if she is this gorgeous? I know beauty is only skin deep and you should look to the person within. more info please. But we all think about our first love at some point in our lives and then we move on and live our lives. So you are not unique to keep thinking about her, just dont dwell on her and meet someone else. There are plenty of gorgeous girls out there, and not just in looks.
take care
xx
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