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writes:how do you get someone you had an affair with to backoff because you are in a relationship??
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (20 April 2009):
 Stop giving them mixed signals, if you are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): shame, your married lover now does not understand that you are in a committed relationship. what will it take for him to get the message. You are actually cheating on your cheating lover. What a wicked web of lies we weave.
Just tell your married man that you have now found someone else to satisfy you and that he must please run back to his wife.
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reader, asian tealeaf  +, writes (20 April 2009):
 u are ur own worse enemy. star put it alll right. i think u might think twice next time u have an affair whiloe in a relationship....if ur afraid ur bf might find out.... why a one sided affair? u should just dump him, and move on. why keep hi round hanging not knowing who u really r??
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): Ignore them -
You said you had an affair - why should you want the person to back off?
suddenly realised that you made a mistake? yet you expect the person to turn off like a tap for you...
star.x.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (20 April 2009):
Block their emails and texts, change your number, ignore them, and if that doesn't work threaten them with a restraining order.
Good Luck!! xx
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