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writes:hi I have a problem, I m back with my ex and I feel like this is pushing all the other guys away, many guys who I may like don't dare and talk to me because they already know that I m still with my ex and I will always do, these times I feel trapped and so afraid of the future I don't want to end up with this guy just because of time...I feel so lonely now specially when he doesn't call or text me...I think that he is living his life right now and I m still not ok with the situation, my biggest fear is him one day desappearing from my life for good and I don't think that I could start over ...
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionin fact I m not the one who usually arrange dates, that's why I feel like a doll in his hands,and this is making it impossible, as far as I can see, to see other guys or even to respond to their requests...and when he don't call or ask, I feel so sad and lonely like his is the one who can make me happy and no one else can..
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (15 May 2010):
 The fact that you're worried about pushing other potential boyfriends away by being with your ex kinda makes me think that you already know that this relationship has an expiry date. Ask yourself who is the cat and who is the mouse in your relationship? Are you always the one to chase him, to msg, to call, to arrange dates etc? Just remember that you only get one life, so live the best life that you can and don't fall into relationships of convenience.
And trust me. You can start over.
Best of luck :)
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