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female
age
36-40,
*urt n depressed
writes:My boyfriend of one year has been gpingnon craiglist and talking men and women to hook up with. I just recently searched through his phone and decided to check his emails he has 14 unread messages so I was curious. I föhn out more than what I needed to know, he actually cheated on me with a guy from craiglist. Got a number from an escort and has been having phone aex with her since valintines day and that day he told me he did not believe in that hoilday because it brings back bad memories from his past relationships. He ended up sitting at home and at 4am he left the house and didn't come back an hour. We live together we both are 22 I've helped him so much financially Nd emotionLly I'm the past even before we started dating. I confronted him about it and he admited to talking to girls overthr phone but he said it was because he was bored at work, I don't believe him. He did not admit to the meet with the guy. He's a angery violent person, but he says he wants to marry me. I love him, but I know I should leave him. I don't know why I can't... I'm feeling all these emotions and I'm always depressed and hurt all the time. Everytim I get the courage to leave him I find myself think of the little happy moments we had and I get week. I don't trust him. Since I met him my bank accoumt has been low and he tells me if I'm not happy with him I should leave and e gives me these guilt trip stories. I'm scared I just might we with him because this is my first boyfriend that I really cared about and lived with. Should I break up with him or work it out?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2009): I think it sounds like your relationship is stuggling major! I have been having a simplified version of your same problem. My boyfriend thinks it is hilarious to go on craigslist and flirt with these girls that bare it all. He has never met up with any of them but I think eventually he might find someone he really likes...even more than me. I have told him it irritates the crap outta me that he does this but he insists he is not a cheater and doen not intend to do anything with these girls. i believe him but it is still very nerve wracking. I feel like eventually it will get to me to the point where I will leave him cheating physically or not. I think if he does something that he knows irritates you and continues to do it even after you discuss it with him he lacks respect for you and doesnt deserve to be given your all if he won't return the same amount of love.Best to you and your sanity....You will figure out the answer that is right for you...Live life happily,
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reader, niki20 +, writes (11 May 2009):
 hun, i would leave. at this point you have hard evidence of him cheating. at this point i think hes just using you for your money. this guy seems like a loser and a jerk.
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