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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Dear CupidMy bf of 3 years dumped me saying he is bored with me, im the worlds most boring person and he cannot stand to spend even 5 mins with me in a day and im being petite (my hright is 5'0) is not working out for him.Did i happen to mention that i did almost everything he asked me to do, gave him money, was there when he was in trouble, supported him on all his antics, even did abortion since he doesnt want to have kids right away. Just like that he dumped me and asked me to leave his apartment in 2 days time. I dont hv friends, im introvert, i am alone, broke, depressed, dont know what to do next.Please please help me.
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reader, oldbag  +, writes (4 May 2013):
 Hi
Go to family,ring them, or as Person12345 says, get to a womens shelter.Do it today, find one via the Net if you can.
He sounds like a nasty piece of work and you are well shot,he has used you.
I wish you luck and hope you get the help you need.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (4 May 2013):
 It sounds like you were in an emotionally abusive relationship the whole time. It's hard now, but in time it will be better for your wellbeing for you to move on and find someone who respects and loves you rather than belittles and controls you. A loving partner won't constantly leech off you and insult you, he will respect you. It's a classic abusive relationship tactic to isolate the partner from resources, money, friends, jobs, etc...
If you can contact family for help, that is ideal. Otherwise contact a women's shelter for help finding a place to stay.
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