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writes:You rarely see a very hot caucasian girl with an asian guy (I'm not asking whether you've seen it. It happens, but it's rare). I've read that the best looking girls TEND to like more masculine guys, whereas more average girls TEND to like a bit less masculinity. Do asian guys TEND to be less masculine than caucasian guys? Is this the main reason for my first observation above, or is it because they, well, look asian? Honesty please. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2012): My ex-husband is Laotian. I was young, thin, and considered quite attractive when we were together. I've always liked Asian men.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (30 June 2012):
 I used to go to a nightclub owned by a very masculine asian man, his wife was a totally hot looking causican, despite having had three children, most of the bouncers were asian as well, what they lacked in height they made up for in muscles, as for masculine asian men, if you have never seen any you are looking in the wrong places.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (30 June 2012):
 I've seen a white girl with a boy who had Asian origins! Although, when I asked him where he was from he said he was part German and part mixed race. But when I asked about his Asian features (he didn't look German at all) he said he had a great great grandmother somewhere that was Asian and that the Asian features are more dominant than other races. So that even if he was half German, this great great grannie somewhere still makes him look Asian.
I know that was a sidetrack, but it's interesting to me. Anyway, yes, pretty white girls have been observed with Asian boys. But the number one reason why I think it isn't common is because Asian boys don't WANT to date white girls. They are supposed, culturally, to only be with girls from the same culture as them. So I think the integration factor plays into this a lot more than physical features. I know some Chinese boys here in my city, they are a family who run several restaurants and cafes. They're all cute enough to eat up, but guess what.. they've all got a "girl back home" in China. Who they have to marry. Even though I can assure you there are several white Norwegian hot women who wouldn't mind dating them (I'd date any one of them).
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (30 June 2012):
 Couldn't it simply be because Asian guys TEND to be rather cliquish and not to date outside their race/community ?
Close to where I live there's a town, that used to have a population of about 50.000 all white people. That area got a massive Chinese immigration wave in the last 20 or 25 years, so now they are 100.000- half white half Chinese.
Well, you would think there would be plenty, or quite some , inter-racial couples . And you'd be wrong, there are none. I don't think it's the Italian girls choice , if there 's a merit they have , so to speak,is that sexually speaking they are equally opportunity employers, they are curious and adventurous, and they seem in fact to be very fascinated by men from other etnicities ( Arabs, Africans, etc. ) ( with much dismay of the local boys ). But , no Chinese. It must mean something, mustn'it .
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2012): Go to San Francisco, you ll see plenty of couples like that.
In fact my very hot white young daughter that lives there had a Chinese boyfriend for a year now, and keeps on admiring half Asian babies:). they seem happy. You never know. Her boyfriend also never had much interest in Asian girls, he always dated white girls. My daughter never even was friends with anyone from Asia, but now he is the biggest love she ever had.
And about muscles: my daughter's boyfriend is not a big man, that's for sure, small framed I d say, but he is much into sports and has lean mucles.They are the same height, didn't stop her. Her previous white boyfriends were all American boys, tall, muscular, and that didn't work out, so, again you never know.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (29 June 2012):
 I see it all the time. Maybe it's more common in the military with "mixed" couples. You see EVERY variety imaginable.
I don't think Asian men look any less masculine, honestly. But then again I'm not really a Guido/Beef-cake fan.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2012): not to sound big headed but im a white caucasian and ive been told im hot lol ive been with my asian bf for two years,
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