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Are we having illegal underage sex?

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Question - (3 December 2008) 9 Answers - (Newest, 4 December 2008)
A male Ireland age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey guys Im 18 and my gf is 15, We are dating 15 months now and we have been doing it for about 6-7 months.

My question is this, Since Im not like 45 or something would I be penalized for this?

I love this girl to bits, We were together about 12 weeks before we even kissed. She was very shy and I liked her too much to try and force her.

Any help would be appreciated.

Thanks guys and gals

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A female reader, Blue_Angel0316 United States +, writes (4 December 2008):

Blue_Angel0316 agony aunt*rolling my eyes....that was TRUTH *LOL* The Angel is not PURRRFECT! I was typing here holding a 7 week old baby, I am his Nanny. *SMILES

God bless,

Blue_Angel

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A female reader, Blue_Angel0316 United States +, writes (4 December 2008):

Blue_Angel0316 agony auntSorry hon but the Trust is always best and it SHALL SET YOU FREE although Sometimes it hurts! I think you you understand this now. My best to you.

God bless,

Blue_Angel

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2008):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Annoymous female reader who answered....

Im not just out for sex. I really like this girl and were just having sex. Its nothing big I just wanted to see how badly I could be penelised and shiz,

Btw thank you everyone for your answers. Even tho its not really what I wanted to hear:(

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2008):

Yes you will get in trouble in you do decide to have sex with her. As you are over age by two years. If you wanted sex, why date a 15yr old?

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A female reader, Blue_Angel0316 United States +, writes (3 December 2008):

Blue_Angel0316 agony auntAge of consent for Carnal Contact in Ireland is 17 years of age according to the Wikipedia but new laws are getting the consent age lowered to the age of 16. (NEWSVINE NEWS)

At any rate you are indeed a legal Adult by age 18 and indeed are breaking the law by having sexual intercourse with someone who is 15.

You should stop further actions and protect yourself and the young lady from further complications and possible prosecution. She is a MINOR!

Sex isn't something to be taken lightly so please rethink your position and I think you can see that waiting until she is older is best for both of you. If you truely care about her it won't be such a big deal to wait until she is of legal age of consent. At this time you will be older and she will be of age, you will both have more knowledge, mental and emotional maturity that is needed when being sexually involved. Seeks God's Wisdom and Guidence, he can show you the way.

God bless,

Blue_Angel

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A female reader, mindofthethoughtless United States +, writes (3 December 2008):

you have to check in which state you are in. Every state has a different age of consent

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2008):

yes, seeing as she is under the age of consent, and you are legally an adult it is illegal, and if you were reported you could be penalized, but i say go for it anyways, i would... but also realize that if you got penalized, you more than likely wouldnt be able to see or talk to her (at the very least), and if you love her as much as you say you do then you would give up sex and just be with her untill she is of the legal age to consent to such activities.

hope that helps

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2008):

Yes it is illegal regardless of how much you love her

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A female reader, katatonik United States +, writes (3 December 2008):

katatonik agony auntIf she is legally underage, you are legally an adult, and there are laws pertaining to this in your country (and I can't imagine there aren't) then yes, what you are doing is illegal. And yes, if you were reported, you could be penalized.

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