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Are these signals to have sex with her?

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Question - (3 December 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 5 December 2010)
A male India age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I am a 32 years old virgin male and I am working in gulf now. Before I was working for a Indian boss and his wife was good with me even after I left that job they still call me and I am in good in terms with them. The problem is that whenever my boss wife talks to me we will end speaking about sexual affairs of other people.

Is she showing me the signal to have sex with her? Now my boss is going for a business trip for few weeks and he has requested me to come and sleep in his house for safety purpose. should I take advantage of this opportunity ? Please help me how to find out what is in her mind?

Thanks in Advances

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2010):

No, it's a really bad idea. Tell him you would feel uncomfortable staying in the house alone with his wife, and that also people would talk.

Suggest he finds a couple, perhaps relatives, to go and stay with her, or she could stay with them.

The last thing you need even in terms of your job is to start an affair with your boss's wife!

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (3 December 2010):

Honeypie agony auntVERY bad idea.

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A female reader, lintmagnet United States +, writes (3 December 2010):

So what if they are signals? She may or may not want to act on them. She is married. Deal with it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2010):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks to all of you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2010):

It's common sense. of course it doesn't mean you can have sex with her, even if she wanted to! It's someone else's wife, not yours. If you want to find someone to have sex with go on holidays or start going clubbing and i am sure there will be some single ladies interested in you. Marriage is something that two people build together for many years, it's when out of billions of people you choose one to spend the rest of your life with. If she wants to cheat she will, but you don't be a man who destroys a family. What you could do though is talk to her and help her think of how she can improve her marriage, try to help them, not destroy their lives. I'm sure you wouldn't want someone having sex with your wife in your bed when you're on a business trip and left your house and wife in the hands someone you trust.

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