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anonymous
writes:Hello. We all know women love compliments - especially if they are from a man they find attractive (even if they are not dating him as such). My question is: do women find such compliments addictive i.e. will they start pursuing the attractive male in order to be bestowed with further compliments? Does their 'ego' need topping up on a routine basis from those who they are not actually in a relationship with as such? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2008): ...just as I thought. In that case I reckon this girl I have a crush on at work will come looking for more compliments in November time. When she does I'll make my move on her - HA! HA! HA! How I love to play the role of 'nasty piece of work!'. Thanks.
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reader, Aunty Em +, writes (19 September 2008):
 I understand what you're saying. And yes, I think it can be 'addictive' if they're given that often! But I mean, really often. My best friend is a very giving person, and he constantly (and I mean constantly) showers me with how wonderful/amazing/lovely etc I am - just to increase my perception of myself. It doesn't work that great, but I do start to expect him to say it. If i'm feeling down, I sort of expect him to cheer me up with all those things.
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reader, GirlyonFire  +, writes (19 September 2008):
Looking for attention is like....... somenting is not quite going right and she needs to feel pretty or happy to think people like her. If she's not looking for attention then maybe she's happy. Girls who look for attention don't actually know how to cure the problem their self. They just know they like attention.
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