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Are there no mature women interested in young guys?

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Question - (17 May 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 24 March 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I love mature women but I am young (16). Its hard when you know you probably can't have sex with an older woman at a young age. I just don't know what to do.

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A female reader, stonewoman United Kingdom +, writes (24 March 2009):

You are too young too have sex with older women, I have a lot of sex with younger men but they have to be 18.Age is no problem while having sex.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2008):

Hey, I know what u mean. I'm a girl though and I'm 15. I absolutely LOVE older men. I don't know why though, just something about them. I can relate to you when you said it's hard to have sex with them, but hey, that's why we all have our fantsies!

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A male reader, Dr Vendetta United Kingdom +, writes (17 May 2008):

Dr Vendetta agony auntmaybe let your big boy hair grow in a little more. once you hit 18-19 then you'll probably have more luck

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A female reader, Susan Strict United Kingdom +, writes (17 May 2008):

Susan Strict agony auntWait a couple of years. There are plenty of more mature women who would be only too pleased to have a young lover.

But there are a couple of things you really should consider:

First, sex outside a loving and long-term relationship will NEVER be as good as sex with someone you love and know well.

Secondly, think very carefully about forming a relationship with a woman much older than you. Be realistic about it because, much as I hate to admit it, however hard we women try, we age. Sure, men age too, but it's not quite the same. As you both start to get a little older it's going to be very difficult for you to be as excited by a woman whose shape is beginning to sag, whose skin is becoming wrinkled etc etc when there are plenty of women of your own age who are still firm and shapely. Ten or fifteen years doesn't make a great deal of difference when you are in your late teens or early twenties and she's perhaps no more than thirty-five or so, but by the time you get towards forty and she's over fifty (like me) then you will really start to see it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2008):

When you are of age to go to clubs and pubs, you will find that you mix with a variety of age ranges - and there are alot of older women out there that would be interested in a younger man....many of them however may have baggage attached so it depends how much older and whether you are looking to commit or just sleep with these women.

You dont have long to wait really, perhaps you should put your energy into your schooling instead of getting a woman, theres no rush is there?

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