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writes: I am unsure if my best mate and my girlfriend are sleeping together. The suspicion comes from several things. The way the talk about each other is too personal. Whenevr they are in both with me they get on really well and have a really good laugh with each other, yet my girlfriend will not be that way with me. I cant have a laugh with her like that. When i asked her why she cannot have a laugh with me like that she says things like , he dosent call me fat (for example) even though i do not call her fat and am always complamenting her. On top of that there has been many occasion when , shortly after talking to my girlfriend on the phone i always seem to get a phone call shortly after from my friend. Recently we have been having a few problems in our relationship. When i talked with my mate about our problems he said very confidently that she dosent love me. I wondered why he was so sure , so i asked him , and he said he come to that conclusion from our chat. To make things worse, today i had a missed phone call from my girlfriend, shortly followed by missed phone calls from my friend. When i rung my girlfrinend later on that day the phone was ringing constantly for about ten minutes before i got a response. A few minutes into the conversation she said she had to call me back in another 10 minutes because her sister was trying to get through to her phone. Half an hour later i had had no response so i called her to see if she was still on the phone. She wasnt. She was talking to my best mate who had convienently turned up within that half hour. She said he had come round to see if his beers were still there from before christmas.I asked her if she had spoke to her sister and she said that she hadnt because she didnt have enough money to call her on her phone, yet she had enough money to ring me at home. I dont know what to think so thats why im asking for advice. Should i be worried?
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reader, Dawnest +, writes (8 January 2006):
i sense you have become so nervy and suspicious that you have lost sight of the fun person you once used to be. She and best mate have found some rapport and it feels good to flirt because you have certainly have lost the art of being the fun guy she first knew.
if best mate was having "European discussions" with your girlfriend, believe me, the signs you pick up would be much more worrying. best mate would suddenly be very busy and not able to spend time with you and girlfriend would have a permanent headache and suddenly have a seriously sick relative she has to spend her time with.
Chill and relax a little. There's nothing going on xcept some morale boosting flirting.
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