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writes:A quick and shortish question really.I like this girl and we have got together and kissed on two separate occasions now, i think it can go further and could lead somewhere, but there is one thing, i dont know how to ask her out? Any one got any tips for this? Text? MSN? Face to face? What to say? You can tell im not very experience in this, so thanks for any help you can give!!
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reader, vamp-gal +, writes (16 November 2008):
 Hey,I think also face-to-face. My friend got together with someone over msn, lasted for nearly a year, but that's not the point.Face-to-face means a girl really knows you are being serious and not joking around, on msn or text messaging, you may miss-interpret what the other person is saying and she may think you're just joking with her.Face-to-face makes it more personal, and easier for a girl to know whether you are being serious or not, so she doesn't feel 'Oh My God, what if...'.So, yeah, personally I think face-to-face would be better.Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk thank you very much. I didnt really think think msn and text was a great idea, like you say. Thanks for the help though it is useful and ill give it a shot. Fingers Crossed!!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (15 November 2008):
Don't do it by MSN or text, you are not 12.
Just try and see her at some point and get chatting, and then say something casual like "I've been thinking about you since we kissed, and I was wondering if you'd like to go out and do something... we could go for a drink tonight if you fancied it?"
Just keep it relaxed. You are not asking for her hand in holy matrimony, you are just asking her out for a drink or dinner as just slightly more than a friend.
Good Luck!! xx
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