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writes:Dear Cupid,Is there still hope for my romantic life? Im already 20yrs and I still haven't had a girlfriend, let alone gone on a date. By date, I mean courted a girl. Sure I had crushes and all those but let me explain.I was a bit awkward as a teenager and went to an all-boys middle school and high school, which doesn't help my situation. There were some girls in the neighborhood who had crushes on me, but I was too shy to ask them out (we live far away now).During college, I made sure to do well in my studies, and knowing that I cant juggle both studies and romantic interests at the same time, I didn't have plans of courting anyone (I restrained myself).Now, I am looking for a job but I'm not sure if I can still court a girl because of my inexperience.I think I'm a bit pathetic but I just look at life and hope that someday, I can find the one. Any tips on courting a girl or how to let one know that I'm interested in dating her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2011): It's great that you put your studies first and that you are comfortable with the idea of finding someone. Just be yourself and try and imagine where nice girls with a nice character like yours might hang out. Approaching them can be a bit tough, but do it anyway with confidence. Sometimes it's good to just ask someone out for a coffee as that's not too overwhelming for you or her and the more you do this the easier it will be.
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (10 May 2011):
 Hi
I think you are awsome :) I will tell you why......
Most guys will mess around and try all sorts before they find THE ONE. You however have put your education first, and that is a BIG plus in a girls eyes :)JUST continue to be YOU and it will all go to plan trust me on this. And about being shy, we all are when it comes to dating, because we dont like rejection!! But now you are in the BIG wild world , hold your head up high and start dating , women are just as nervous as you are. Just be yourself :)
I hope this has helped
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