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writes: I am thinking of having anal sex for the first time with my boyfriend. I tried many years ago with another boyfriend and even though lube was used it was painful and felt like I was doing a poo! I wondered if anyone had tips as to what the best way of doing it is? I know I shall use plenty of lube, but does it also help to push down slightly at the same time? My boyfriend is very loving and know he will be very gentle, I also said that I would need to make sure I am completely relaxed and turned on a lot beforehand to the point of near orgasm, would this help too?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2010): I hate to say this but it's true for many. A few glasses of shery or your favorite sweeted alcoholic beverage really helps too. It'll make your body relax. But don't get drunk - just nicely buzzed. This has really helped me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010): As you said, you will need a lot of lube and be highly aroused so you are relaxed enough to try it without it being painfull.
Start off very slow and if it ever gets too painfull then stop immediately.
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reader, krunkqueen  +, writes (9 December 2010):
have him start with oral and as he performs oral to gently use his finger first one then two and so on until your a little loosened up and turned on enough so that when he puts his penis in you it wont be as painful or also try anal beads those help a lot :) have fun
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