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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi, my husband and I have been married for about 3 months now. and he just recently got a FB account. about 2 weeks ago his ex (with her 4 years were engaged) friend requested him as well as all of his other close friends. so it annoyed me she friend requested my husband plus all his friends. so i friend requested her and she accepted. so anyways my husband then accepted her friend request and his reasoning was because i did, and thought i wanted him too. plus i know his pw and he thought that would help with any doubts. so anwyas i put on facebook like 3 days later that jon and i may join account and have one fb account. and she posted as her status "i think people who want joint accounts with other people are control freaks... not to mention insecure and have trust issues" obviously directed towards me. then she put about 4 hours later. idk why people are offended with me i am just like everyone else only prettier. again i believe directed towards me. because so anyways i delete her from both our account and make out profiles viewable to friends only. then about 10 hrs later she sends my husband another friend request. what are your thoughts on what should be done and what you would do in this situation?
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reader, rcn +, writes (10 September 2010):
 I think she should be blocked. It's apparent that her intent is not to be friends, as much as it is to bother or harass the two of you.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (10 September 2010):
 Fi the Tree has it.. block her, problem solved. Go to your settings and change them.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (10 September 2010):
 I find it astounding how much personal information people write about their lives on facebook. Are none of you scared of stalkers, identity theft etc. Don't post your private personal stuff on a public forum it's dangerous and stupid.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2010): I agree with the others - just block her. You don't need the hassle.
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reader, fishy fish +, writes (10 September 2010):
she's obviously a trouble maker and a jealous ex, who won't miss an opportunity to spread her poison on ur entourage, she feels that ur jealous and insecure cause that's her exact aim, she's upset that he ex is now married to someone else. don't ignore her request , keep it pending and ignore all her requests and status, indifference is magical. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2010): Very easy, just set her to blocked on your accounts. That way she will not bother you again. She obviously has unresolved issues.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2010): go to her profile and near to the bottom of the page there is a box that says block if u block her she wont be able to add u or send any messages the only way she could is if u unblock her or she gets a new acount x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2010): Block her.
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (9 September 2010):
 I think you should both block her, that way she can't find either of you on facebook, not even through mutual friends.
Problem solved!!!
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