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writes:Question: My ex and I broke up a year and a half ago because I cheated on her and she in turn cheated on me, all of this after being together for 7 years. I met a interesting woman who I find attractive and she is everything I want in a woman. Then, my ex calls out of the blue wanting to to out. I went out with her. Inside the place we chose to go she kept getting really close to my face and acted as if she wanted to kiss me. As we were leaving she grabbed my hand and quickly let go, and when we got back to her place she invites me in at 1am. We sat and talked but I ended the night saying that she was tired and should go to sleep. She watched me walk to my car and even watched out of the window until I pulled off. Now, I can't stop thinking about her and can't move on with the new woman. What does all this mean???
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2007): You cheated on, and she in turn cheated on you.Do you really want to go back to that? If you do, you're a masochist.Tell the other woman the truth. That you went out with your ex, and that you walked away from your ex. Tell the new woman that you may not be entirely ready, but you want to try. If your ex tries to contact you again, tell her that you've moved on, even if it feels like you haven't.Your body has a lot of memories involving your ex. She's going to be in your head for a very, very long time. What matters is whether or not she's in your heart.Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2007): well buddy that is what you call she just got over you!
frist. she probley had old feelings and had to release them.
second. you shouldnt go a head with the new woman intill your over her,
but its all mind games or unless your ex. wants you back.
but if so she does want you back than thats something you'll have to figuar out your self.
all i can say is lots of luck but you see when you were around her like it or not brought up old feelings in meaning your relationship most likely ended unfinished and what i mean is you both got hurt and hurt each other so its just something you'll have to deal with but i say dont mix the new woman into it and also this you heart knows that you love but your brain is telling you that it couldnt be because all the bad things that happend
even thow this new woman might be the girl of your dreams
doesnt mean she's the one
but you may never know intill you get your heart back
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