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writes:My boyfriend fingered me, It started to hurt, but I ignored it, but then I started to bleed.Did he break my Hymen? or is it something else..Am I still a virgin even though I've never had sex..
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reader, happytochat +, writes (8 July 2008):
The view/belief that if you hymen breaks then you are no longer a virgin is wayyy out dated and not correct.
These days, people recognise that your hymen can be broken from numerous things, not just sex, such as masturbation (which is what your bf did when fingering you), using a tampon and even playing some sports.
So although your hymen is broken, it does not mean you are no longer a virgin. Dont worry, you are still a virgin.
And yes the bleeding would of been due to the hymen breaking. Hope this has helped :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008): Similar question was asked by somebody yesterday;
I suggest you read all the answers that was given there;
Here ihttp://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-havent-had-sex-as-such-am-i.htmls the link:
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reader, Tremor +, writes (8 July 2008):
 If it hurt and you bled, he may well have broken your hymen, but a broken hymen does not necessarily mean you aren't a virgin - you can break your hymen through exercize or using tampons.
Everyone has different definitions of what constitutes virginity. Fingering counts as sexual activity, but you can't really lose your virginity through it. Generally, virginity is lost when the penis enters the vagina, and most other things are just foreplay.
Hope this has cleared things up.
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