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writes:i dont know what to do please helpive fallen for my best friend. we have gotten closer over the last few weeks, he has major problems with his girlfriend and has been with her for 5 years. he needed someone to talk to and i was feeling low and i dont know how but we kissed for a few mins. i had such a powerful feeling i know i have strong feelings for him. hes also made comments like he wished he met me 5 years earlier. i felt so bad its never happened since. i think because we both felt low so please dont judge.his girlfriend has psychological issues ,he says its been going on for ages and hes begged her to seek help but she refuses. she also drinks heavily and goes out a lot with guys from work. its tearing me apart seeing him so stressed. i feel bad aswell but you cant choose who you fall in love with. at the moment hes with her through guilt which i completely understand but he says he feels trapped and really unhappy. i would love to be with him but am keeping my distance. am i so bad for feeling this way towards him please advise me
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2012): Talk to him and tell him how you feel. I would take the step before its too late, either way I would want to know where I stand. To continue being friends will be hard as you have developed feelings for him and it would be in your interest if he does not reciprocate to stay away.
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reader, oldbag +, writes (1 August 2012):
 Hi
You cant help how you feel but don't hold out too much hope. He could finish with his girlfriend but has chosen not to. Until he is ready to make the break, or she is, then dont think of him in a romantic way. Be a friend yes, but not if it means you getting hurt.
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reader, leximami  +, writes (1 August 2012):
 no dont keep ur distance what he needs write now is his bestfriend and when you find the rite time talk to him before its too late good luck
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