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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi ok ive been having this online relationship with a guy 4 a while now hes nice and sweet and we talk about alot of things. Ok now here is the strange part he is 24 and still a virgin he has never had a relationship before he says that he is waiting to find the right one and stuff like that. To me it seems like he is living in a dream cloud should I stop talking to him? Because i don't know if this is gonna lead anywhere I mean he talks to me about everything and we're very close but I don't know, I mean am I just wasting my time?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (10 January 2011):
 I agree here as well, you have never met this man in person therefore he could be anybody and feeding you lies. He may have slept with 20 other girls but he may be smart and think if he tells some young girl that he is a virgin and wants to wait for that special someone then he is getting right at your heart strings and then he may move on to telling you that you are her but dont be fooled you dont know a person until you meet them face to face. Therefore he could be just typing lie after lie. I agree with the other two finish with him and go out socialising and meet people away from the cybernet.
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reader, kenny  + ♥, writes (10 January 2011):
 The problem with dating someone online like you are doing is you never truly know who you are talking to, and he could be spinning you all sorts of lines. There are alot of people out there who use the internet, and various sites purely to meet girls any way they can, sometimes under false pretenses. Have you ever seen a pic of him? I just think something is abit fishy here so i am going to go with Petinal and say its time to let the virgin go.
Good luck
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reader, petina1 +, writes (10 January 2011):
 I never encourage online relationships at this depth. Talking on line is okay but virtual relationships, you don't know what's true and what isnt and youve always to be careful. When you are young and vunerable it's easy to feel for someone who you meet online, they can tell you anything at all and you will believe it, you can't prove anything. This is what I think, You are having doubts, so it's time to go with your gut instinct and let the virgin go.
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