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writes:There is this guy in my college class and I think he may like me. Not 100% sure. The thing is, we have been in the same class for about 4 months now and he hasnt asked me out or anything. I dont know if thats cause hes shy, if hes taking his time and trying to get to knwo me first or because he just doesnt like me that way at all!!Ive only been out with two guys before and both of those guys asked me out within the first week of meeting them, so I guess thats why im a bit confused by this guys actions.He asked me for my number, but never called. He always sits next to me in class, not anyone else. Hes always making up funny excuses to talk to me. He always asks me questions when I honestly feel he knows the answers because they are pretty simple and hes a smart guy...so i thought maybe hes using that as an excuse to talk to me. He playfully hits my arm all the time and has found a fair few excuses to touch me during class, such as if our teacher asks me a question and I get it right hes like "give me 5" so i have to touch his hand. He does that all the time, but to no one else.The other day he left class fairly early and I left a few minutes after him. I saw him outside the classroom geting into his car and he made a joke about me stalking him. But he was the one who used to get up and leave class when I would! Am I reading too mcuh into these signs? I am to shy to ask him out....
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reader, over here  +, writes (18 May 2008):
maybe you could write him a letter telling him how you feel, and leave it somewhere he'll find it easily. also he might be shy. but try not to follow him everywhere he goes.
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reader, Ember13  +, writes (18 May 2008):
If you want to go out with me just ask him out! That's what I'd do. Otherwise you could just be waiting forever.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (18 May 2008):
You don't have to go all the way and ask him out - you could just ask something else to try and see what his intentions are.
How about "so how come you asked for my number but never called?"
Or you could ask his advice about some (imaginary) guy who you've heard likes you but you aren't sure if you like him. Point out there is no one else who likes you so you may as well go out and see what happens.
Hopefully your classmate will either tell you to go for it, or be a bit jealous, or tell you not to and go out with him instead.
It could be that he likes you but doesn't want to ruin your friendship, or create problems by going out with a classmate.
Good Luck!! xx
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