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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months. Recently, he went to Hooters with his friends and at first, I was pretty annoyedd but then I got over it until I found videos in his history of Hooters girls. Am I overreacting because I feel like I am. I know he's not a pig, it just makes me feel bad about myself. Reply to this Question
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reader, Dionee'  +, writes (26 July 2014):
 I think that you're quite insecure and need to work on that for and within yourself. It's not that big of a deal what he done really. The issue here is that you're insecure and you're projecting that onto your bf and the relationship. It's not directed towards you what he done and it certainly wasn't meant to make you feel any less attractive. Focus on you and work on your issues and you'll realize that he is with you, not those girls, YOU and if you focus on that, it should be enough to convince you.
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reader, -BMBTL-  +, writes (26 July 2014):
 I'm from England, but I genuinely don't think it's a big deal! He's a guy, guys do guy things! Chill about it, honestly :)
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (25 July 2014):
 No, it's really tame and no big deal.
It's mediocre food served by pretty girls. That is all. My FIL loves the place. I guess because he can sit and drink beer and ogle pretty young things...
I have been there for a babyshower once and I don't get the big deal people make out of this.
Watch South Park (the Raisins episode)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Raisins_(South_Park)
And have a laugh.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2014): Then that's your insecurity issue to sort out, Hun. Hooters is essentially a tease restaurant. They go for the girls and stay for the food.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (25 July 2014):
 Nah, Hooters isn't all that bad. The girls are eye candy, but he's not "choosing" them because of any deficiency you have. If anything, his being at Hooters could work up an appetite he brings home to you because you're his number 1 girl.
Have you ever gone there? You should! It's pretty much just a restaurant that serves pretty delicious buffalo wings, beer on tap, and the waitresses' outfits are a bit more skimpy than TGI Friday's. It's far from a strip club or a topless bar. Your boyfriend didn't do any touching or get touched or anything of the sort. I've been there many times because I've worked professions that are very male dominated and we had many meetings there. If anything, the guys get all drooly and dorky and it makes for fun people watching. The Hooter girls do the whole batting the eyes thing because it brings in the tips, but they're pretty zero-tolerance when it comes to groping or having tasteless manners from the customers. They do NOT allow people to be overserved and toss out any customer who starts showing unruliness, and it does happen.
Just think of it like you going to a bar and the bartender is smoking hot with that smile that makes you weak at the knees. You know you'd never cheat on your boyfriend, but you leave the place with that tiny extra smile and you take that pent up appetite and sexual energy and go kiss your boyfriend's brains out.
Don't worry. Hooters is tame. If he were going constantly or getting thrown out of them, then you might want to talk to him. AND, tell him since he has all that money to head to Hooters, have him take YOU out, because you're a better trophy girl than any Hooter girl out there.
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