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female
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writes:I was in a relationship with my bf for almost 3 years and I broke up with him because I felt like it wasn't right to be with him anymore since I started to become irritated with everything he does.. During the break up, I started hooking up this other guy who's amazing in bed. However, I had to leave him and move to a different place. This gave me an opportunity to realize that I want to work things out with my ex again, sadly he doesn't get me turned on as much as when we used to be together. Is it because I still have sexual fantasies with the other guy? What do I do? I still love my ex and want to get turned on by him not the by my fantasies with the other guy...help!thanks!
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reader, kirra07  +, writes (2 December 2010):
Chances are that the sexual fantasies with the other guy don't help. But I think the major factor is more the fact that you and your bf are in a rocky patch. If you're always irritated with everything he does, it's hard for him to turn you on. In the back of your mind or subconsciously, you're still bothered by all that stuff.
So work on finding what it is that's really bothering you, try to fix that, try to find fun and joy in your relationship again, and the sex life should improve.
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