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writes:Long story short, a few months back my BF left me for no reason (his reasons I guess) after that I refused to be his friend or even have comunication. Lately Ive been completly busy, I barely have time to think but yesterday was a good day. Last night I went to the mall an met tons and ton of people, mostly guys who were hitting on me. When I got home, I went straight to bed and fell asleep. I woke up at 3:50, so I started to finish some homework, as I was working out of nowhere I felt this huge stress feeling and the thought of my ex came to mind. I felt like I wanted to cry, not cause of his thought but deep down I felt like I had so much on my shoulders I couldnt take it. Honestly, this week end has been relax for me. So I dont know where this feeling of DREAD came from.... I felt like honestly, like if he needed to talk to someone cause he didnt know what to do. I say it this way cause when we were together I would get these feelings and I call him, he would say he was ok but a few hours later he'd say he wasnt really ok and then he'd tell me why ( Also he'd say I'd freak him out, the way I'd ask if he's ok when deep down he isnt. I guess what I really want to know if I was just hilicinating cause of some meds( Muscle relaxers and and Anti- Inflamtory pills cause of an accident I had), if Im missing the idiot or if I could honestly be right on what Im feeling... Womans Intuition? ( Note: It's been over 7 months since the break up and I've had time to heal nicely, and I've fallen for another. So why this? Why now? )
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reader, 11muds11  +, writes (9 December 2010):
I think your answer is in your question. You have been so busy that you haven't had time to fully grieve that this relationship is over. You may have heal the out wound, but you didn't fully grieve as you were too busy. It's a good thing that this is happenening no matter how hard it may be.
It's natural that you have feelings for someone later in life. He was a jerk and never called so you made the right move. After a little time you will have grived enough and then you'll be ready to move on. Don't worry. This will pass soon. Good luck.
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