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Am I just his plaything on the internet?

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Question - (5 March 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 March 2011)
A female United Arab Emirates age 51-59, *icole1231 writes:

I have been in a relationship with a married man for 6 yrs and never met but plan to meet this year. It is a long distance affair and we agreed to be honest with each other as honesty is what I can have from him. Yes, he doesn't give me hopes, he sets his limitations, he emotionally supports me and at times financially supports me only in emergency cases.

I had ups and downs in my life and sometimes my life's predicaments are too unbearable but he is the only person who stands by me and supports me. A support that my family never did to me, a kind of support that my ex-husband never did to me. He is always there and never leaves me alone except when it comes to his private life I am off limits.

My question, after all those years with him and I am off limits to his private life...he hardly shares. Is this married man really loves me or just have me as his play thing in the internet?

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A male reader, sebaslookingforward Argentina +, writes (5 March 2011):

Move on!!! This man is a cheater, im sorry for his wife

Being supportive online is easy. Dont take it seriously

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (5 March 2011):

CindyCares agony aunt You are only his Internet plaything- and you don't even have a relationship with him ! you never met in 6 years !

Oh sure, he has been "supportive "- it's so easy to be supportive from a physical and psychological distance, all you have got to do is being good with words and throw your way afew "sensitive " e-mails here and there , and in your case, he is also throwing your way some money if you have emergencies. Good- at least he's not a tightwad, this we know . But what else do you really know about him ? Nothing except that he is a liar and a cheater.

I think that after 6 years of that, it's time for a reality check....

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