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writes:im ten weeks pregnant. been with my boyfriend a year and i guess we fell madly in love. i use to nag him alot, question him and didn't trust him, and always wanted him by my side. then i opened my eyes and realised i couldn't keep doing that, so now im very fair with him and have started to trust him which was hard for me to do as i had trust issues. but now i just feel better when im alone, i try to get rid of him alot and now i never wonder what he is doing or where he is. could this be im falling out of love with him? or is this just that im learning to trust again... i do still love him but maybe not as much as i use to... im very confused. Reply to this Question
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (4 May 2010):
 This is a far out shot, but I have a theory. It could be that instead of trusting him, you are trying to not care about him. This can mean that you still have a trust issue, and find it hard to understand how trust works. So instead your logics have, without you being fully aware of it, decided to simply push him away. When you don't care so much about him you wont care so much about what he's doing, right?
If this theory is correct then you must find a way to balance your strong feelings for him with your trust issue. And find a way to love him and care for him but at the same time know that he cares for you and wouldn't do anything to harm you.
Or, it could mean that you in fact are falling out of love.
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