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writes:There is this married young lady who quite recently joined our workforce. From the first day she's been very friendly with me. I only work some of the day there as I go out every day to other places to do work. When I am in the area with her, our jobs don't overlap. One has nothing to do with the other, other than being in the same room.Anyhow often when I come back there and an older woman who works in that room, tells me "(name of young lady), is driving me nuts, asking where you are, when you coming back already, I'm so missing him(me)". A male colleague also confirmed this.I am not planning to act on it, just wondering if this could be just as a friend, or she wouldn't do it unless it was a sexual interest? Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (20 December 2015):
 Ignore it, that is my advice.
It honestly seems a bit creepy of her with those kind of questions, if you ask me. It's really none of her business.
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reader, Dodds  +, writes (20 December 2015):
 dude I wouldn't take it seriously coz I'm used to such in my office but DUDE she's married!!! Stop entertaining such thoughts let alone asking about it
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2015): She likes you. You're her office Crush. :)
But... She's married and openly telling coworkers that she misses you. Seems a little messy on her part. I would stay away from her. She obviously can't keep a secret. So if for some reason you had a weak moment and hooked up with her she would definitely tell people. And you would end up looking bad because she's married.
I would keep my distance.
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reader, Denizen +, writes (20 December 2015):
 This sets all sorts of alarm bells ringing. What do you think is going on? Could she be setting you up for a sting? She borrows a few quid, then a week or two later a bit more all with a plausible excuse.
You surely don't believe you are such a babe magnet to drag a young woman out of her marital home on the strength of your occasionally being in the same office as she?
Put your sensible head back on. Smile be pleasant but don't fall for any lines. And don't get involved in someone else's marriage.
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