A
male
age
30-35,
*asan
writes:I really need some help with my relationship.. im so depressed now//?i love this guy.. i love him a lot.. i would take a bullet for him.. we've been dating for like a month now, and he told me last week that he wants to keep our relationship open. i told him that i can't handle that, it will just be too much drama and maybe we should become only friends in that case. and we agreed to that. that night i slept crying all night. we went out together last night to the club. and there i couldn't resist. i held his hand, and told him even if he wants an open relationship, im okay with that, because i can never give him up. afterwards he was making out with this guy for like the entire night. actually i made out with few other guys as well, but i just did it because i was half drunk, and half want him to get jealous. im so hurt. i really don't want anyone but him. and everytime i tell him that he says that he loves me too, but he wants to see other people too. im actually crying as im writing this. im very confused and i don't what to do.
View related questions:
depressed, drunk, jealous Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, wee_neko  +, writes (14 August 2010):
As difficult as it is, you should just cut it off. You probably want to try to keep him in your life some way, but getting over him will not be possible unless you have a nice long break from him to meet other guys who ARE ready for some level of commitment.
I've never been in an open relationship and so have nothing to compare to. But it doesn't sound like a good situation for you at all :( I hope you work things out for yourself and become undepressed again :(
A
reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2010): Don't do it would be my sugg. Just let him go...it maybe hard as you come across as loving him deeply, but there is nothing you can really do about it...he has already told you that he wants an open relationship......you can either stay, or move on.
...............................
A
male
reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (14 August 2010):
 Does he truly feel the same way about you? If he does then, if you tell him exactly how much it hurts you, he should be there and you two should be able to talk about it. Why does he want an open relationship?
...............................
|
