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writes:I was out at a party last night and went back to my guy friends flat after to watch a scary movie with another friend. We were all sitting under a duvet and he pulled my feet towards him and gradually started stroking them. I have always had on/off feelings for this guy so couldn't help but start stroking my feet against him. As time went on the other friend had fallen asleep but we were half asleep and gradually got closer and closer to each other to the point where we were intertwined. He kept stroking my hair and squeezing me and we both kissed each others cheek. He then tried to kiss me on the lips. This is where the problem occurs. I have a boyfriend who I live with and have been going out with for 6years. I told the guy that I was really sorry and pulled away. He was ok and kept cuddling me and doing what he did before. He said he loves me and I said it back. I could feel his heart racing and I felt so happy to be there. I said I wish things were simple(ie i was single) and he said yeah but that never happens. Eventually it got to the point where we were falling asleep and then he got up to go to the toilet. When he came back he sat down and grabbed me close again and started kissing my hand and stroking my side. I told him he should go to bed and he did and that was the end. What I need to know is whether this guy likes me as a really good friend or whether he fancies me? He's a flirtacious guy who is generally quite touchy feely and I don't know whether I just happened to be the one that was there and cause I showed the same affection back he thought he might as well try it on. We had both been drinking so maybe he was just a wee bit horny? I text him once id left in the morning to say sorry and he said "dont be, there was no harm done, love you." and I've not heard from him since. Its stressing me out as I dont know what hes thinking and I feel a bit foolish if I was just another girl he was trying it on with. Please let me know what you think! As honest as possible!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2011): I asked the question not to see whether I had a chance with him but to understand our relationship more. I see this boy as somebody I want to be close friends with forever and don't want anything to complicate this as I think he's great. I'm worried if I am too cuddly or friendly with him he may get the wrong idea and then in turn think I'm leading him on. I am not very good at picking up signals and needed help to discover what this boys intentions were.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (2 November 2011):
 If he fancies you are you dumping the 6 yr old boyfriend?
IF not why does it matter if this boy fancies you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2011): I think you may want to reflect upon why you are asking about whether this guy was trying it on with you, professing his love to you, and cuddling closely...intimately with you---while you have a boyfriend of six years who you just happen to live with.I think you need to consider that you have a BOYFRIEND...unless of course things really aren't so great and you are just living together while you wait for an excuse to end things. Perhaps you've found it? Or was that your question?
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