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writes:This is so crazy!!Sorry its so longI started at a new school about 3/4 months agoand instantly became really good friends with a girlAnyways, she told me she was Bi, And i told her i was tooIt was great, on new years she had a party and we made out sober and drunk.Then 3 days ago she told me she DID fancy me.I told her the same.Anyways 2 days ago she slept over at my houseI was really horny when we started watching Sugar RushAnd started running my fingers over her neck, And asking her if anyone had kissed it, She told me no.So i moved my head up too her neck, And asked if i could.She said yeeah. I kissed her neck a lot and she moved her lips round too mine and we made out, then she started kissing my chest. i did the samethen she asked if i wanted too go all the way i said yesAnd we had sex, she was the first person ever too do thatI was enjoying it. But after that she told me, Just too forget itShe had a boyfriend when we had sex.They broke up the morning afterThey broke up because he don't like gothic/emo girlsI don't know what too doI don't want too be with her.But i hate the fact she just wants to forget it!!What should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008): Ok
I have know this woman for easy 18 months and she is part of my inner social network.
We were orginally introduced at a dinner party. There was no mutal attaction, and no one was bothered or hurt. We the only ever saw each other occasionaly but in grouped company
recently for some strange reson we found ourselves being in our own company. All of it was initated by her. Over a period of amonth the frequency and time increased. I then started to realise somthing was happening.
One night she invited herself to stay the night at my house with a bottle of wine. I ageed and played the gentlmen card and nothing happened. she phone me the next day and thanked me for a nice night and asked if we could do it again.
The next day I kicked myself and thought I had missed an opportunity. I also realised that I was spending a lot of time with her and was beinging to bond beyond frienship. This always makes me hesitant
I saw one of her friends latter that day who asked me why had'nt I made a move. I told her friend know knowing it would get back that because I thought she was ok and not just a one night stand prospect I wanted to be sure. I went on to explian that I had grown weary over meaniles sex and would rather go without.
A day latter the woman in question invited me over for coffee. It was getting late I was about to go home and she pulled me in for a passionate embrace and led me by the hand to the bedroom and did not leave for a day and a half. She got me to phone in sick for work
As you can imagine I was on a high, How did I find myself in this possition.
Anyway the next day I phone he up and she cut me cold. Ok give the girl some space.
A day latter I phone and she was abrupt and cut the converastion short.
I gave it two days to ask where I stood and she said
I JUST WANNA BE FREINDS
Although I was expecting this response, It was actually more painfull than I thought.
My emotioanl barriers are normally up all the time. This woman manged to pull em down and mess with them.
Oh I'm 48 been married twice 10 and 11 years respectivly single 3 years.
the woman is 39 again two marriages 2 yaers and 4 years single 8 years
I'm quite confuused
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female
reader, O Connor  +, writes (16 January 2008):
 sounds to me like she was just loving the moment and wanted casual, new exciting sex, you dont want to be with her, so why are you so worked up?you had really good sex, with a friend, and you both enjoyed it. leave it at that, sure you are practically doin the same to her, you dont wanna be with her, so wat were you gonna say to her the next day, to just forget it?? my guess is stop analysing the situation as you didnt wanna be with her in the first place. move on, and just enjoy the fact that you had a great first time.
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female
reader, hello1 +, writes (16 January 2008):
 You posted this question before, you got good replies too. You better go back and check.
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