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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have been in love with my coworker the past year. He had a girlfriend his first love the past 3 years. She left him because she found out he had feelings for me. Well to make a long story short we got drunk together and went out a couple times when she was at work. Now that she left him he invited me over and I followed my heart. She has been out of the picture a month. He has told me we are soul mates and I am the woman of his dreams. Then one day we was hanging out at his place and his xgirl" called when I was there.It was the first time he spoke to her since they broken up a month ago. He said to her he really missed her and asked how she was. I really was hurt because I am head over heals for him. Up to date its been a week and he hasnt called and is avoiding me. I am really hurt and I want us to work out. Is there a chance he will want to get back with his girlfriend.It doesnt make sense why he was totally into me when they were a couple. After she called he is different towards me.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (2 April 2010):
 First love, three years.. that's a whole pile of loving and commitment right there..
Then you come along.. after three years he gets bored, you seem new and different and he thinks it could be love.
But of course he misses her, and he thinks maybe he moved too fast....
He loves her, he probably loves you, but at the moment, she is fresh and new again, and besides, she's got tons of shared history on her side.
Sorry, go on with your life. He might love you, and he might come back, but why wait and waste your life on "mights"... At the moment he choose her when the chips were down an he pushed you to the side. Yes babes, he's avoiding you, at the moment, he's decided that he probably loves her more.
I suggest you get of this merry-go-round, it's never nice to play the spare in a two player game. Hearts can heal, but being played around hurts like the devil. Plenty of unattached men out there who have hearts free to commit to you.
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