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writes:so i have a secret boyfriend, not going to tell my parents, and we reeeally like each other. but we don't know how to hang out over summer vacation, any suggestions? Reply to this Question
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reader, EbonyBlossom  +, writes (2 April 2010):
 Why is your boyfriend a secret? I can't really help you until I know why you don't want people to know about him.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (2 April 2010):
 No sorry honeypie.. can't tell you to lie to your folks... there are a lot of parents here and they get angry when I tell kids to do wrong things..
How about you tell your parents about your new "friend" and how much you like spending time with them. Email is good, and if you've got webcam, then your parents might feel better if they could see him and his family.
Secret boyfriends are no good... secrets from parents usually means your doing something dangerous or rude. Best to try to get them to know about him then hopefully they'll like him and he can come over to visit.. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2010): Kiddo, I've totally been there. I never had the guts to tell my parents about my relationships for many different reasons. While others here might frown upon me for giving you honest advice and answering your question, here's what I can suggest.
What I used to do, for the most part, was say I was going for a bike ride or going to the park or going for a walk, and then go hang out with him for 30 mins-a few hours. Group stuff can work, too. E.g. going out bowling with friends (including him), going to a movie with friends (including him), etc.
Also, doing stuff in public places is good, too. Going to the park together (if you're into that kind of thing), going to the mall together, etc.
I hope this helps!!
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