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Advice to parents based on experience.

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Article - (14 March 2011) 0 Comments - (Newest, )
A female Zimbabwe age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My fiance and i have been together for over 5 years. We have a kid who is 20 months and have been living together in his parents house for 2 years now. Last year in august we decided to have a wedding. His dad said none of his family members would be around and so the wedding had to moved. When my dude tried discussing with him when the wedding could be held he avoided discussing it. To my suprise the whole family came home in the period the wedding was meant to be. Honestly we were both hurt.

Months later we've decided to have the wedding as it is we're planning for an event his parents know nothing about. Countless times i've asked him about talking to his parents and he says it's not important anymore. He says he doesn't care about thier opinion or presence or anything to do with them.

The problem is his parents are very difficult people. we want to have this wedding to give us a start so it's easy to move out. When we move out, chances of his parents being welcome in our house are next to zero. When old age comes we won't be prepared to sacrifice much and take care of them because of the way they are hurting us. My advice to parents is to bear in mind that if they try and control their children's lives it could end up a disaster.

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