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writes: Whats wrong with me? Im 16 and only this last year did I really start thinking about girls and it pains me so much to be alone. Im so jealous of the other guys that have a choice of what girl to date, especially when those guys are jerks. I know im a better person than them. Im short (5'8") and heavier set cuz im a football player and its mostly all muscle (mostly haha). Many girls have told me about how nice, funny, and understanding I am. Ive always heard nice guys finish last, so I've become MUCH more outgoing and I was wondering what i need to do to become attractive, id tell more but i should keep it kind of short.
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (21 April 2006):
 It's situations like this that bug me about my time at school. The complete idiots get all the girls and the nice guys, who aren't really as popular get none! But here's something you should know; the girls that are interested in jerks like them are not worth having. You don't want some airhead, bimbo who follows the 'popular' guys round all day making a fool of herself! You want a nice girl who will treat you as well as you'll treat them.
You seem like a nice guy and I have no doubt that a nice girl, once she got to know you, would snap you up fast! You've just got to realise that the girls that aren't interested are not for you. Don't you want someone who loves you for who you are? Never change or try to be someone else just to please people or get their attention. Even if it works, you can't keep up and act forever and then you'll look stupid.
Just be yourself, the nice guys don't always finish last, I promise. In the end, they find girls who are just as nice as them and they have long, successful and happy relationships. I hope I have helped, I know I haven't really given you any advice on being more confident!! All I can say is b ehappy with yourself and that will show through. Girls love a confident man! Good luck.
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