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anonymous
writes:Why do men register on adult dating websites? Let me rephrase: Why do married men register themselves on adult dating websites? Are they bored with the wife? Are they just trying out a new porn sight? Like trying to see real naked girls instead of porn stars? What is the appeal of "online flirting" to a married man? Should a wife be concerned?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2011): this is the girl who posted the question. i found emails sent from him to girls on craigslist trying to hook up with them. there is even one where he sent a picture of himself. i asked him about it after printing the emails. he denied that it was him. i even told him if im not sexually satisfying him maybe we could find a way for me to be ok with him having meaningless sex with oother women. still he denies it. i dont believe him. i know he's lying. i just dont quite know what 2 do from here. i guess there divorce and seperation of assets. what a pain. why couldnt he just tell me the truth.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (11 May 2011):
 married man?
DATING site?
only goal: to cheat.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2011): Married men...and women join dating sites to cheat. They are putting themselves out there to see if they can generate any interest and to check out whats around. When they do connect with someone, cheating begins. Even if it is all computer or phone based it is still cheating. And yes a wife should be worried.
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (11 May 2011):
 He will tell you it's 'just curiosity', he will tell you 'it's just a bit of fun' but sooner or later someone is going to catch his eye, stroke his ego and he will cheat.
You need to talk to him because it's abnormal behaviour for a married man.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2011): To cheat.
Out of curiosity that leads to cheating.
Yes, it is emotional cheating.
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reader, Eyespy17 +, writes (11 May 2011):
What?! In no way is this okay unless you have an OPEN marriage - which means you are BOTH flirting with and dating other people.
I wish you the best but don't let him walk all over you on this one.
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reader, Kilcardy +, writes (11 May 2011):
Should a wife be concerned that her husband is registering on adult dating sights? That's like a ship captain asking if he should be concerned that his ship has a gaping hole in it and is taking on water. Yes, you should be concerned.
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