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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend just told me that another girl kissed him.it happened 7 weeks ago.he was out and stayed in his friend's house,he went to bed in his friends house.later a girl came into the bed and turned to him and kissed him.she kissed him twice.he was drunk and didn't realise that it wasn't me.when he did he jumped out of the bed and slept on couch.he really regretted it and felt very stupid.is this cheating?i forgave him cos she kissed him and he ran out of the bed when he realised what was happening.what do other people think?
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reader, natasia +, writes (29 July 2009):
 he didn't cheat. cheating would have been realising it wasn't you but kissing back and going further ... he didn't initiate it, he didn't pursue it, and as soon as he realised he was being (attacked!!) he got out of the situation.
no, he didn't cheat - he behaved superbly . kiss him. thank him. he's a keeper. : )
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (29 July 2009):
Well if you've forgiven him then it doesn't matter what we think.
She kissed him, he did not knowingly kiss her.
Unless you think he's full of crap then forget it and move on. But he did come clean when he had no reason to so I would take that as a good sign.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, kayla20 +, writes (29 July 2009):
 he might just be telling you because he feels guilty but twisting the truth a little bit but without the proof yourl never no but its a good sign that he has told you about it so in that case i think he deserves that second chance but if it happens again i wouldnt stick around
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