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writes:A girl friend has hinted a few times about not enjoying sex with her husband. That he is not a good lover and he wants it too often. I get the feeling that it may only be once a month if he is lucky. What advice or where would you direct her for help the next tine she brings this up? He has no idea she is saying this to people. Reply to this Question
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reader, StudentOfLife  +, writes (20 August 2008):
 I think there's sex counselors available for that. I understand why someone wouldn't want to tell that to their partner.
But I would like to know if I would have this problem because the only way to fix a problem it's to be aware you have one.
I often ask my partners if there's ways I could improve certain things or make it more enjoyable for them. I'm not only doing it for them, but for me as well. I think everybody should do it.
A thing I noticed is while I asked them what I can do to improve sex, they often ask the same question afterwards then I can tell them what I would like.
Maybe you could tell her to ask her husband what she could do to make sex more enjoyable, and then,maybe ,he would ask the same thing. Careful, it's not the time to point out what he does wrong but to say things like "I would like this more" or "I really like when you're doing that".
Or/and like smiles said, maybe you could direct her here and we could "do the job" instead since it may sometimes be a delicate situation.
Hope it helps! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2008): I suggest you recommend to her to write to us; she can discuss her problem; we will need more information to be able to help her.
But I am sure that between the uncles and aunts if we have more information as to the problem she will get lots of suggestions and advice.
Best wishes and lots of SMILES.
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