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writes:A man I have liked quietly for some time and known for over a year reently messaged out the blue with a few out of character messages. We have always just been casual friends as he is with many people. These messages were very come onish and at first I assumed he was deunk. However as the days went by it became obvious he was not. Yesterday, he said he was interested in a threesome with myself and a male friend of his. Whilst photos were taken. (I have been a fetish model in the past) As I say he has a good reputation and publicly never acts sleazy or anything. We have talked about this and am unsure what will come of it should it happen. Do I go with it (the thought doesnt appall me but am worried about the emotional ramification. We are all thirty and I will need to aee him regardless in future as a matter of course.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (3 December 2012):
 I'm very open sexually and I would not do it.
you like him but it's casual
pictures come back to haunt.
it's not the same as modeling of any kind.
In my opinion "just say no"
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThats exactly my thoughts. It seems odd that all of a sudden he proposes this totally out the blue and totally out of character.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2012):
I totally agree with honey pie, and if it hadn't stated your age I would thought you were a lot younger than you actually are..
You sound like a nice girl and fetish modelling is not threesomes or pornographic pictures taken... I'm more concerned of how you will feel about it after.. Used put aside, sneered at, and most all forgotten..
Do not do this to yourself .. You are better than this..
Take care
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (2 December 2012):
 Do you really want pictures of yourself possibly floating around out there of you having 3-somes? And what is going to happen with these pictures?
And do you want to do this in hope that the guy will like you better? Or are you tempted because it's something you want to cross of your bucket list?
Personally I don't find 3-somes attractive, nor having sex with people I regard as a friend and least of all having pictures of a sexual nature is a total no-no for me. I have heard and read FAR to many stories of pictures ended up on places people REALLY didn't want them.
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reader, Euphoric29  +, writes (2 December 2012):
I would NOT do it.Nothing against experiments. If you enjoy a threesome, why not. BUT threesomes should be something spontaneous and funny, no? A weird idea that pops up all of a sudden, between three curious people, not something proposed via text message. And there should be some attraction involved, I guess. You don't know the other guy, so how do you know you're going to like this?Besides, you already doubt yourself if it's a good idea, or you would not be on this site asking us. You probably have good reason to be doubtful, especially because in general you seem to be an openminded person and self confident about your sexuality. There's something fishy about this and you know it.To be honest, I would guess that this man who asked you doesn't have a very high opinion of you. He may think you're attractive, but he probably thinks that he can make you do whatever he likes. Even if you're open to threesomes in general, I think that if you give in to this one, you'll feel used afterwards.
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