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writes:I had a bitter ending with my ex 4 months ago. Then last saturday we met finally as a closure and acted as if we were not bitter at all. I wasn't expecting anything as it was a relief to me that finally we ended in good terms but shortly after our meeting, he called to say that "now that we are ok, i want to make it clear to you that we are not finished totally. If you need anything, just call me. (pause) I will be waiting for your call"I was too busy to even absorb it but after 2 days i thought of thanking him for the concern. Although i sent him a note that doesnt need some reply, he should've atleast acknowledge my message. Right?So why does he want me to contact him and not reply to my thank you message?Can anyone share their opinion to this?
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (9 September 2009):
 Or maybe he just cares about you and wants you to contact him if you're ever in trouble. I think you're over-thinking it just because he didnt reply to a msg that didnt need replying to.
Best of luck
JT
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (9 September 2009):
Personally, I think he's playing games and wants to see if he can have you wrapped around his finger. I've noticed, it's guys that are rather immature that like to do this sort of thing. Yes, it would have been considerate of him to acknowledge your reply--but don't let it bother you. Things ended for a reason, right? So let things be as they are, I wouldn't exactly trust him to be there for you when you need him. The sooner you're over him and have him out of your life, the better.
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