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writes:So yeah im a 27 year old guy, soon turning 28, never had a gf, and yes i'm also a virgin. Recently i've been thinking of just losing that V-card to a prostitute to get it out of the way, i know some will probably tell me to wait for that special girl but lol ive been waiting and odds are i might never even find her so what the heck, im definitely not gonna be a 40 year old virgin. Besides if i ever do meet that special girl, i think i'll be more BITTER about being a virgin than proud of it seeing as how she's probably slept with some few guys AT LEAST, so i think this way everybody wins. To top if off i live in a country where prostitution is legal so its not like ur banging some crackwhore in some dark alley, fairly sure they get checked for STD's and such so there isnt really any risk. And yeah okay i know it is rather pathetic but so am i at this point, ive got NO CONFIDENCE left so maybe this might give me some. And if i ever did meet anyone (big IF) its not like id tell em i lost the V to a hooker, id give a white lie. Your thoughts?
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (18 February 2011):
 Having to pay to lose your virginity will not give you any confidence. I'm willing to bet it will make you feel even more pathetic than you already do.
You've got a case of what another aunt here calls "Stinkin' Thinkin'." You're a constant guest of honor at your pity party.
Women are attracted to confidence. It's obvious you have none, since you admit it. It probably oozes from every pore because it's always on your mind.
I suggest you take some time and work on self improvement. It will do you better in the long run and might help you find a lady to date.
If you want to lose it to a hooker, that's your call. I just seriously doubt it will help.
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