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female
age
36-40,
*exiestgirlalive18
writes:Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 years and our relationship has got boring. All we ever do is work and then see each other at night and we do the same thing over and over we dont do anything and we dont go out anywhere. We plan on getting married in december of this year and I am not sure. I want the spark back in the realtionship. I love him and I dont want to leave him. He says he loves me and I am always questioning myself it I want to be with him. My life is going the way I want it but its just him that I am not sure about. Now I keep thinking that he is cheating. He says he loves me to much to mess our relationship up and I am being stupid some people say but I just dont know what to do. Plus I have no evidence that he is cheating. I want to believe that he is not cheating but I always thingk that and I wish I wouldn't. How can I get the cheating out of my head and get the spark back into our life so we have fun and not just boring all the time. Plus we have two kids.Thanks
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (12 July 2007):
 In my opinion, routine is killing you two. You two need to agree on new things to try.
If you have no evidence of his cheating, then you need to act as there is none. I think you wish there was a way out of this routine and cheating would be it.
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