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Do I need to see my GP or nurse?

Q.   I've had periods for 4 years and I've always had them regularly every month and I stay on my period for 5 days. I recently gone on the mini pill because I don't want to get preganent but since going on the pill I've been coming on my period every ...

A.   22 April 2009: Don't worry. Go to the doctor and he will prescribe you with a different type of pill. It could also be that you have just started on it therefore your body is adjusting still. One of my closest friends has that but sadly when she changed pill... (read in full...)

Drama between me, him and her!!! What do I do?

Q.   There is this guy I am in love with and I think that he likes me... We have went out, in fact he said he loved me and stuff, I don't know if he does like me or anything.... well his gf found out we were talking (cuz we're friends me and him) and ...

A.   20 April 2009: If he's thinking about you then that's great but then again what's gonna stop him going back after her if he gets bak with you? :(... (read in full...)

How can I help my new husband become a better lover?

Q.   First of all, I only had one sexual partner before my husband. Anyways, when I was seventeen, I lost my virginity to a guy I dated for two years. Four months after he and I broke up, I met the man I am now married to (we started dating within a ...

A.   20 April 2009: While you are having sex or doing whatever "base" you are doing, direct him and normally he will follow. You could also buy a book on karma sutra or something like that and give it to him as a humouress present but in normal cases it works to just... (read in full...)

I just need some honest opinions on age differences.

Q.   I just need some honest opinions on age differences. What would you think of a 17 year old girl going out with a 29 year old guy? Right/wrong/doesn't matter? I need some insight to this, thank you....

A.   20 April 2009: 12 years is fine. Think of it as when you are older, in years to come. 40 and 52 is considered a great relationship. Don't let yourself get uncomfortable though. If you don't feel it is right then talk to your partner about it but from my opinion at ... (read in full...)

I think I'm in love with my "friend with benefits" and I'm so depressed...

Q.   I'm in a friends with benefits relationship with someone I dated for a few months. We see each about once a week to hang out and have sex. I've become secretly very attached to him. I can't eat, I can't sleep and I feel so sad most of the time ...

A.   20 April 2009: I sort of agree with the previous reply. However I've been in a similar situation and it was fucked up. We'd been out before and we will always have feelings for each other but thing is i am over him because even though we were doing stuff and since ... (read in full...)

I think he only wants to meet me for sex... but I'm NOT ready!

Q.   Hey, I need help asap. A guy I have known for about 6 years now, we are very good friends has asked me to meet him, I am really scared because I think he wants to have sex and I'm not ready, specially not with him, he's told me he just wants to ...

A.   20 April 2009: If you are good friends then why are you scared? And if you see him as a good friend then you can tell him you aren't ready :) He should respect your wishes but yeah take a friend with you but make sure its a guy coz if you find you end up kissing ... (read in full...)

19 and 45, what to do... need some help!

Q.   I met this guy when I was 10 and I fell deeply in love with this guy sexually emotional and physically. I'm now 19 and he is 45 and I feel it would be wrong but on the other hand I really love him and we are starting a relationship, and I was ...

A.   18 April 2009: The age difference may scare you and others but if it is what you feel is right, then go for it. Times are changiing and people need to go with it. :) But one thing, if you want to make this work you need to ignore what people say about you. ... (read in full...)

Does this Claire have a crush on my fiance or are they just friends?

Q.   Hi, I'm in my first serious relationship (22 years old) with a man in his 30's. We met on a blind date which in a strange way was set up by his mother who I knew. We got on real well and got engaged recently. His Mum sometimes spoke about these tw...

A.   18 April 2009: If she is headstrong then she sounds flirtatious. But she doesn't sound into him at all. At least not for a long term thing. She just sounds like an old friend who wants to catch up. To me, she sounds like a person who felt that your fiancee ... (read in full...)

I'm 13 and we are considering "fingering", does it hurt and how should we do it?

Q.   Okay, well I'm 13 my boyfriend is 15. He is 22 months older then me. He is very very sweet and always is like, "we are not doing anything that you are not sure about or comfortable with." and he means that, seriously. He gets really really worked up ...

A.   18 April 2009: Sorry for the two answers, my friend wanted to answer too :)... (read in full...)

I'm 13 and we are considering "fingering", does it hurt and how should we do it?

Q.   Okay, well I'm 13 my boyfriend is 15. He is 22 months older then me. He is very very sweet and always is like, "we are not doing anything that you are not sure about or comfortable with." and he means that, seriously. He gets really really worked up ...

A.   18 April 2009: Hey The first thing is to not be scared. If you are then he may not feel he can do it because he sounds like a genuine guy. Fingering is literally using a finger instead of a penis to pleasure you. But it doesn't hurt. Unless he is doing the ... (read in full...)

I'm 13 and we are considering "fingering", does it hurt and how should we do it?

Q.   Okay, well I'm 13 my boyfriend is 15. He is 22 months older then me. He is very very sweet and always is like, "we are not doing anything that you are not sure about or comfortable with." and he means that, seriously. He gets really really worked up ...

A.   18 April 2009: I think you will find that the first time, especially with someone who doesnt know what he is doing, will not be as pleasant as people say. When someone fingers you, they literally use their finger instead of having sex. Don't be scared about it... (read in full...)

Handsome man in nightclub alone intimidates a woman?

Q.   I am in a bit of a pickle.... I am a 26 year old guy. I have been told I am very attractive by many females, and I have noticed a lot of woman looking at me.....in streets, at clubs etc. However I am totally clueless and I may be misinter...

A.   18 April 2009: I know this may be strange and you are going to say no, but your friend sounds like she used to be into you, or she still is now. I only know that because I've had a similar situation and I liked my "friend" a lot. People will definitely think yo... (read in full...)

Very self concious about hair around my nipples and other parts of my body! Any help?

Q.   This is really really embarrassing. I am 13, I shave my pubes down there, and legs ect ect. But MY BOOBS ARE HAIRY! like around the nipple and then I have hair on my chest and stomach and stuff! It's not like proper chest hair or anything lol, it's ...

A.   18 April 2009: Hey, don't worry everyone has it, its just that you have dark hair so it shows up more. Confidence is the key thing here, if you act confident if/when people bring it up and laugh it off then people won't make a big deal out of it :) hope you are ... (read in full...)

Could it be pregnancy???

Q.   Hi, I was just wondering if anyone knew what it could be rather than telling me to go to a doctor, or if anyone else has experienced this: I had sex around 8 weeks ago so I don't think I'm pregnant and, what I think has been my period has come twi...

A.   17 April 2009: Thankyou so much, I did take a pregnancy test two weeks after having sex but it said it was negative then the week after I got a gooey, brown liquid at the same time as when my period was suppost to be.... (read in full...)

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