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writes:I've kicked my partner our of 4 years for speaking 2 my eldest child who is not his, like rubbish. He calls her names and tells her he hates her all the time, we have 2 children together and I really miss him, he won't come and see his kids and he won't speak on the fone, I hate living on my own with just the 3 kids and I want him back but he won't come home and I dont know what to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, GoddamnedROCKSTAR  +, writes (11 August 2007):
 Are you serious? If he'd treat your child like that, then he doesn't deserve to breath,let alone have children of his own. And even worse, as the mother of that child you should keep him as far from said child as possible. Its your responcibility to look out for the kid's well being, including keeping abusive fucks away from her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2007): Ok, why do you want this man back? He sounds like a nasty piece of work- calling your child names and verbally abusing them has a profound effect on a child's self-esteem and that is something they do not deserve. Of course you miss him,of course you still love him and it is very lonely when you suddenly become a single parent, having being used to your partner being around. However, you say he will not contact you or your children-is this really a responsible father? Is this an example of a good partner? Too many of us settle for less because we feel this is all we deserve due to low self-esteem. You only get one life and you and your children deserve better. Instead of dwelling on this coward, concentrate on surrounding yourself with your friends and family. If you can, arrange a babysitter and have a night out with the girls; you might not feel like it right now, but the hurt and emptiness will ease with time if you have a good support network around you.
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