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30-35,
*leaseLoveMe_x
writes:In going into my final year at school in september and all my friends are getting into relationships except me. what is wrong with me why am i so unattractive. iv only ever had one boyfriend and that was when i was in yr 7. i recently when on holiday and had my first kiss. but why can i not find a boyfriend why does nobody like me. i actually would really like a boyfriend right about now. cos i feel left out when all my friends are talking about what they did over the weekend ect ect. and it kinda hurts
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reader, dont_worry  +, writes (11 August 2007):
 first of all you have to change that attitudehow do you want a guy to like youif you dont even like yourself?then thats where the problem is..you are young and prettyabout the thin thing.. dont worry those are only tendencies of magazines and fashiononly to ruin teenagers lives (i count myself haha)dont feel like this, be happy, try to change your self steembelieve me it would help you a lot!
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reader, bee-ess-2007 +, writes (11 August 2007):
 there is nothing unnatractive about you... maybe the guys want to get to know you better give it time! belive me it always works ot in the end!but if u dont like yourself try standing infront of the mirror everyday and picking out your good points and write them down on paper and by the end of the week you can work on what you think is bad and then ask your friends truthfully on your answers if they are true friends they will tell you the truth but once you have worked out what you dont like about yourslf youcan work on what you think guys like about you and what they dislike about you - you dont have a problem your not ugly or unnatractive- you have to work out what you dont like bout urself and change to see what others think
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reader, dont_worry +, writes (11 August 2007):
i totally understand your feelings! because sometimes i feel the same way you do!and first of all theres nothing wrong with youok? self steem is very important (guys like that) ;)so just try to have fun, be with your friends, laugh, enjoy life :Pand when you less expect, love will be by your doorwaiting for you 3good luck (:
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reader, Je2157 +, writes (11 August 2007):
Hey there, I remember being in senior school. To be honist you are not missing out, people always exhadorate on wha they do on the weekend to impress more than anything. Relationships in senior school never last (except the very odd one). You are the wise one by being yourself and allowing people to see you for who you are. You will find someone. I had my first kiss around the time in which you did and I was a nervous reck. When you find someone you can take it slow and confortabally. Trust me, there is nothing wrong with you, generally that age most of the boys are very shallow. I find out now that those who dated and were the 'cool' ones are on their own, got in trouble with the law, not moved very far in life etc and you will be the one to get your life on track. Je2157 xx
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reader, PleaseLoveMe_x +, writes (10 August 2007):
PleaseLoveMe_x is verified as being by the original poster of the question yes but im not as pretty as them and not as thin,
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2007): I had the same problem as you a few months ago, and I totally understand how you are feeling! All my friends were happy except for me!...
But don't worry, everything usually does come right in the end!
First don't try to constantly look for guys, they can sense it and it makes them feel uncomfortable! Just be yourself and try to have as much fun as you can when you are out with your friends! Love comes by surprise so just have fun and it will find you!
Good luck...xx
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