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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I need some advice - split from my ex 12 months ago due to him cheating and drinking! He has kept in touch with me every day even! I tried changing my phone number so he then just turned up at my house.Last weekend I gave in and slept with him on the Friday and Saturday, I have now found out he went on a lads weekend holiday, met a girl who lives 5 hours away and they went on holiday together 2 weeks ago, he says he is sorry and it was a big mistake! I don't understand why he could do this and I'm heart broken all over again!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks!he has tried everything to get in contact mobile and land line!i just cant get my head round the fact that he could go on holiday with some girl he only met a few weeks earlier! he says it woz a mistake and he only did it cause he cant get over me and she lives 5hrs away
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (11 August 2007):
 Oh & by the way, my ex was an alcoholic too. Not violent or drinking first thing in the morning but every night.
I dont know about you, but i dont particularly want to end my days with someone thats got cirhossis (cant spell that) of the liver & having to spoon feed him. Thats what my mate had to do with her alcoholic mum in the end & her mum was only in her late thirties! she died a couple of years later.
Be a bit more choosy. You deserve better!
C xxxxx
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (11 August 2007):
You need to distance yourself again from this guy.
Ask him, no TELL him you dont want to hear from him, hes not the guy for you, and you want to move on now. I had to do this recently. I changed my mobile number & he rang the land line, so i had to get caller display for that. Thankfully because i wasnt too kind when he rang, he hasnt turned up at my door. But i have made it perfectly clear i dont want to hear from him. So im hoping he is mature enough to not turn up.
This guy you're talking about doesnt know what he wants, hes a mess. So you are better off steering clear & not being in contact. When you split from someone, you definately wont move on if you are still stoking the flames.
Good luck
C xxxxx
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