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writes:im desperate... i dont know what to do anymore. how on earth can i forget someone that i love so much but cant be with?? i have tried to go out with my friends, have fun, keep myself busy at all times, unfortunately there is nothing i can do to forget him, his on my mind 24/7. i even dream about him. we where friends not long ago, he wanted me to be his girlfriend but i refused, all i wanted was to get to know him better but now his gone, living me blue, he now has a girlfriend, and i dont want to create any problems in whatever relationship he has, besides he left without saying goodbye. the problem is that i cant get him out of my mind, i really need help. please help me:(
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reader, Blod  +, writes (17 May 2010):
 It's impossible to stop thinking about it. The only thing that helps is time. Feeling this way is good, because you're not bottling up your emotions. It's healthy to get your emotions out.
You say you can't be with him. Unless he has a girlfriend or has rejected you, then tell him how you feel. That way you can properly get your feelings out. You can deal with his reaction head on. There won't be anything clouding over your mind.
There isn't a lot you can do apart from make sure you express your emotions. I think the best way of doing that is to write your feelings down in a diary or something. That's really helped me before. You can keep it private but you can still get your emotions out in a creative way. It helps you come to terms with how you feel.
Good luck.
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reader, Universe Man  +, writes (17 May 2010):
Only one statement will always and forever be true: "This too shall pass." Some day you won't remember his name.
Trying not to think of something makes you think of it even more. Think positive thoughts about him and about yourself. It will make you more attractive to the next eligible guy you meet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2010): the best thing you can do is call him and tell him your true feelings, the thing with guys is any form of rejection (no matter what excuse you offer) hurts a lot...
so he left because you hurt his feelings, (even though is wasn't intentional)
he may still feel the same way towards you, but you will never know until you talk to him... do it before it's too late!!
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