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Why is my ex playing games with me? Is he trying to spite me?

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Question - (13 December 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 December 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, *andykane writes:

I guess my ex and I just ended our super dragged out relationship of 11 months when he randomly started ignoring me. He and I don't go to the same school but we go to the same train station. Since like two weeks ago he has been arriving at different times to make sure we're not there at the same time. He is still married to me on Facebook and it won't let me cancel it. I asked him to end it but he wouldn't even text back. I also told him I wanted my drawings back and he never responded. He completely pretends I don't exist. I've moved on but he doesn't know yet. Anyway, he told his friend to tell my best friend he said hi to her. He doesn't even talk to her and when we were together said he hated her. I think he's just doing all of these things to spite me. I just moved on last week and I don't want to start thinking about him again out of anger. Whatever it is he is trying to do is making me so mad. Why can't he just give me my stuff back and stop pretending I don't exist? I don't even want him anymore so what is he doing? By the way, I never told him I didn't like him anymore, I just said I wanted my stuff back and I hope he has a good life.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2011):

Good. so what the problem?

Oh there isn't one because you moved on. ;)

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A female reader, kandykane United States +, writes (13 December 2011):

kandykane is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I havent even attempted to talk to him in a while...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2011):

Drawings, were they a gift? Or a loan?

If they were a gift, sorry Babes but they are his and he does not have to give them back. So to ask is juvenile and dishonest.

About the facebook, bothers you that much, cancel yours and get a new one. Otherwise STOP CARING ABOUT HIM.

Also, blocking him may clear up that issue anyways and really, that should be done no matter as its OVER.

He doesn't HAVE to text you back as it is OVER.

Blacklist him so you are not even tempted to prolong this unnecessary drama of the texting.

THEN MOVE ON all together because so far, you haven't really. Finding some new guy but still texting the EX?

DISHONEST.

Mean what you say and live it.

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